Don't hate the player

Imagination is a very tricky skill...

Undoubtedly it makes everything a lot more spicy and interesting and I'm sure it's what creates suspicion as well as comfort.

But the way it tricked me into imagining for a second that- I was with someone- when I wasn't, brought a make-believe sense of reality which is probably unrealistic; and too romantic anyway.

It really shouldn't be about the majority of the time imagining, guessing and wondering whether the other person is thinking of you me. It should be more of a balanced game of communication and mystery.
Where both are intrigued by the other.
Both are anticipating a little text saying 'hello sexy, guess who's at the door'
rather than waiting, in all uncertainty, whether they will respond positively to a text; or whether they will respond at all.

Too much and too little are not enough.

Game.

Balance.

A balanced game of communication and mystery, is enough.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=luM6oeCM7Yw