Post Work

 Otan den xortaineis na vlepeis ton allon, auto den einai agapi?

A Lost Journey

 How did I give away my email to hackers along with my memories

To fade suddenly yet gradually from the feed of friends around the world.

I was shocked when I realised what had happened. 

Just like that time I left Lebanon and realised my daily seeings would change.

Same as Australia, and jobs I've had.

Will I see this person again? The moment of realisation and then a big hug. Whether I do or not, I hold this moment forever.

But to suddenly disappear of the face of your social memory was grander.. No compass can locate how lost I felt losing those sweet moments in time that I shared mostly with myself. The loneliness I openly caressed yet the friendliness I kept going - like if you, my friend, were here, you know we would have been laughing and sitting chatting over tea, cake, snacks, cider or whatever else tickles your fancy depending on where you're from and where we are at.

A journey of moments and colours blocked me from seeing it.

Saddest. 

Yet I remember Alexander Jay from Canada who I met in Lebanon when he was over 30 and I was under 26 and was looking for his other half who he has now found and proposed in the snow to, saying 'I'm so glad I met you' because we had the same light in our eyes. And a love for personable communications.

I remember Emma from Sweden saying 'you saved me Elina' as we looked at the full moon on the hostel balcony in Bundaberg and thinking wow I didn't do anything.

I remember moments I could not have captured in pictures, and hope others remember me in these moments too... 

But I can't avoid feeling that I have lost these moments. 

The big hug of goodbyes that really just left me staring at people in my current reality like I've only just arrived.

Names that are being confused in my head in my attempt to hold and remember usernames.

Yet I see the students I work around and my colleagues and smile knowing that these too are moments irreplaceable and lonesome - as all others.

Moments that will stay even if they are lost.

And yeh, I have added people back on my new account but it really feels like I am the newborn and everyone else has a past.

23:00 Night Shift Day

 Wanting to care for someone so much you cry in the car on your way to work.

When a colleague told me she cries here and there and in her car and at random times I found it hard to associate with, imagine or feel.

Now I experience it too.

I play a song I want to hear like London Grammar - Strong and suddenly feel the weight of loneliness when it says I've never been so 'lone.

Oh sorry - it actually says I've never been so wrong.

If a child, a child cries, would you not forgive them?

g. I can't imagine being so wrong. Like with all compassion and intellect should come a very clean understanding of things. But how someone can be so wrong - is beyond me.

It's like coming from different dimensions.

Yet I met someone today who clearly was sent to come and tell me he has just come back from Australia and we've seen the same things. Last stop was Brazil because his wife is Brazilian. The place I was going to go after Australia. Strangeo to meet like that - and yet stranger to not be able to break down walls of people who for so long have convinced themselves that they are strong, right, better and further.

How much can you excuse.

All of it I guess.

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